The Chat FAQs

Why is the in-person class all gendered now, instead of the single gendered class from previous years?

• Research has shown when we normalize learning together about bodies in puberty and how they work and grow, we change the narrative from shame and embarrassment to one of building empathy, compassion, and respect for each other. Our virtual workshops have included all genders since 2020 and over 12,000 families have given us their enthusiastic thumbs up on how much they appreciate the chance to learn about the entire puberty experience for all humans together. Although some of the physical parts of puberty are determined by specific body parts and hormones - much of the puberty experience is shared by all people. National Standards for Sex Education include learning in all gender environments to promote emotional and physical health and reduce the confusion and stigma often associated with these topics. Whether virtual or in-person, The Chat provides a fun, interactive, medically accurate, developmentally focused approach to the topics of puberty and sex for families to attend together. We are committed to bringing programs on the important topics of growing up to girls, boys, and gender expansive youth and their grown-ups. Our goal for 35 years has stayed the same: for families to leave our programs with more confidence having conversations with each other on the topics of growing up.

Can I take multiple siblings to one class?

We encourage you to bring each child separately honoring their individuality. During class, there is opportunity to learn and discuss things together. The class involves role-playing games and conversation prompts, where it is helpful to have one-on-one time with each. However, each family has its own dynamics, and we invite each family to choose what works best for them. The Chat Virtual allows for additional family members to join at no additional cost, as you will be joining from one screen.  

When will I receive my copy of "Will Puberty Last my Whole Life?"

• We do a mass mailing once a month at the end of each month. Your copy of the book will be shipped out at the end of the month after you attend the first class in the series (Is Puberty Weird?). After the books are shipped, it could take up to 10 days to deliver. The book is not needed before class, nor used during class. Rather it is supplemental material.

What if I need to change a class date within my registration?

• We will accommodate rescheduling your classes one time per registration on a case-by-case basis. If you need to adjust the dates of your series or are interested in spreading your classes out over a longer period, please email us at LPCHCommunityClass@stanfordchildrens.org to reschedule your workshops. You will have one calendar year from your first class to reschedule.

How do I cancel a class registration?

• To cancel a class, please refer to your registration confirmation email. Under Order Summary, you will find a link to 'view and manage your order'. This link will take you to an Eventbrite page where you can cancel your class up to 7 days before the class. If you need to cancel your class within 7 days of your class, please email LPCHCommunityClass@stanfordchildrens.org. You will have up until 7 days prior to the start of class to receive a refund back to your original payment method. Attendee credit will be given to those requesting to cancel within 7 days of the class or after the class has started.

Are there scholarship funds?

• Scholarship funds are available for all our programming.To inquire about how to apply, email us at: LPCHCommunityClass@stanfordchildrens.org.